"Give ear, O heavens, let me speak!" (Deuteronomy 32:1)
During the Ten Days of Repentance, we seek to make amends for all our transgressions of this past year. The hardest and the most important place to do this is in our relationships with others.
When we have a disagreement with a colleague, when we distance ourselves from a friend, when a family feud develops with a relative; we form a narrative in our own mind. This narrative tells us what happened and why we are angry or hurt but it rarely tells us why the other person is angry or hurt.
Relationships break down, crimes are committed and wars are fought because everybody walks around with a set of narrative so strong that it leaves no space for alternative versions.